One unconventional planter raised his black children and his white children together in the One jealous wife shaved the head of her husband's black mistress. Swetnam warns that women burn men's blood, enfeeble their bodies, and enchant their minds; Shakespeare describes his desire for the black mistress as fever. I am a 38 year old plus size woman. I have been a mistress off and on for the past 4 years. These married white men are very wealth and.